Lesbian Flirting Tips

Lesbian flirting can be tricky, since you never know how the object of your flirt is going to react.

There is nothing like having someone dating flirt with you to boost your self-esteem but: whether or not you return the attraction, it feels good to try. Lesbian Flirting is an art. It is a two-way game. You have to be able to read your partner's interest and comfort in flirtation in order to know how to proceed.

But, if done properly, there is nothing better or more exciting than letting the electricity grow between you two in the beginning stages of a relationship. Flirting can be subtle or overt.

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Here are some tips for Lesbian Flirting

Tips for approaching:

• Try to sit near the girl you like. Notice if she moves closer or farther away.


• When you are sitting on a couch and your thighs touch, what does she do? Does she let it stay or inch away?

Once contact is made

• Look her in the eye when you are talking. Hold the stare for a little longer than you would a normal conversation.


• It may sound corny, but open a door for her to walk through.


• If you are sitting across from each other, gently put your hand on hers. Do not move it away unless she does.


• Tell her she looks nice tonight. Compliment her hair or outfit.


• Find out what makes her laugh. There is nothing like humor to cut the tension and loosen you both up.


• Touch her hand or shoulder when you hand her a drink.

After the first meeting

Call her just to say hi and see what is she has been doing.

Send her a little note that says you enjoyed spending time together.

An email is okay, hand written and dropped at her door or mailed is better. Be careful not to over do it. You do not want to seem like a stalker.

Look for signs that your flirtation is unwanted.

Does she get off the phone quickly when you call?

Do you send her long flowery e-mails, only to get one line answers in return?

If so, back off and let her come to you.